That which does not break you will make you stronger. Isn't that the old saying? While "that" is going on, you're thinking, "bullshit", but I think it makes sense on many levels. First of all, it's positive. Positive thinking, in my opinion, is the root to a happy life. While some may say optimism gets in the way of reality, I say negativity does the same and even goes further: it makes you someone nobody wants to be around. There must be balance (I'm sounding so Yoda-like). Balanced positive thinking (that's what I'll call it) helps you to keep pushing forward in a world that sometimes doesn't make sense. The balance helps you to remember the reality BUT not give in to the negative side of things. You can cry and mope and say why, why, why, OR you can accept it, say, "this too shall pass", and live to see another day. Also, when being realistic, you must face why your problem arose. Why did "that" happen? From that conclusion you will move forward and keep grasping at your goals with more of a purpose. Listen, nothing comes easy, but that doesn't mean you can't have fun. Being negative will eat you up. If you're negative in one aspect of your life, it will grow and effect other aspects, thus making you less and less the person you really are. Chinny up! Don't let any "thing" defeat you. Remember what The Boss said, "no retreat, baby, no surrender." If you're wondering why the blog lately has been "the struggle to accept change and move on" corner, I'll address that when the time is right. Fear not, life goes on. Once a jackass, always a jackass. Better days will come. These dark clouds will blow away. The sun will shine once more. Let's all just be patient. Take care. Later, Butch